以前，她每天都有着同一个梦，
她再也不想回去了。
不对， 是她再想也回不去了。
我不信命
我信爱情是没有理由 悲欢的注定
“… isn’t about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.”
不是解决问题的最好方法。
就算让你避过了今天，那又怎样？
问题只会越滚越大。
‘Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it’s better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.’
- Marilyn Monroe -
Sometimes, I feel that I am way too stringent in filling up The Scorecard.
As much as I understand that NO ONE is perfect in this world (including myself), I still conciously or unconciously pushed people around me to be a “perfect” person.
Ask my ex-es, I drive them crazy. Being good is never enough. I want the best of everything. I don’t see why people stop trying when they can do so much more to be a better person. No, I’m not trying to change people or shape people to the type of person I like. I just see the potential in them to excel in life. I never believe in trying to change your bf into someone you like coz that never happen. Unless, the guys loves you so much, he does it willingly. If you love a person, you should try to accept him/ her as the way they are. Of coz, there may be flaws about that person and you can point it out. You can even try to suggest or pushed them to be a better person. But never ever think that anyone will change for you. If you are constantly disappointed in a relationship and still stay on, what the heck? you have a problem. Not your partner. Obviously, he is not your Mr. Right. Quit wasting each others time. Walk away and find someone else.
I’m hard to please. I think I get disappointed way too easily, thats why I’m always walking away. When I’m disappointed, I stop trusting. And when I stop trusting, I become protective over myself. And when I’m being protective, I cut like a blade. A broken promise is a lie. And my definition of a broken promise could be as simple as, ”you promise to come at 3pm, but you came at 3.30pm.” Oh, and I hate white lies especially. People who tell white lies are just giving themselve excuse to put the blame of something they did wrong on others. You may say “oh, I’m not telling you coz you may get sensitive over that issue.” Cut the crap. If you think so, first of all, you are guilty. Else why would you think so? In the first place, if you know that I’m gonna be sensitive over that issue, don’t do it.
When you disappoint me, sorry dude, I reevaluate you. Yes, you are right, there’s nothing great nor perfect about me. At least I never stop trying to be a better person. People make mistakes, but people do change if they want to. And who says a ugly and fat girl has no right to call another person ugly?
为什么一个人的时候就会难过？ 你呢？
Calendar
| M | T | W | T | F | S | S |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| « Jul | ||||||
| 1 | ||||||
| 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 | 8 |
| 9 | 10 | 11 | 12 | 13 | 14 | 15 |
| 16 | 17 | 18 | 19 | 20 | 21 | 22 |
| 23 | 24 | 25 | 26 | 27 | 28 | 29 |
| 30 | 31 | |||||
Friends
- Adrian
- Bee Yam
- Charissa
- Chi Yng
- Emily
- Fong
- Juliana
- Kenny
- Lee Sun
- Pei Shan
- Robert @ SY
- Serene
- Shaine
- Stuart
- Vincent Tan
- Wei Ken
- Wilhelmina
- Wun Ling
- Yan Nee
- YM
Links
Archives
- July 2010
- June 2010
- May 2010
- April 2010
- March 2010
- February 2010
- January 2010
- December 2009
- November 2009
- October 2009
- September 2009
- August 2009
- July 2009
- June 2009
- May 2009
- April 2009
- March 2009
- February 2009
- January 2009
- December 2008
Categories
- just my thoughts
- lesson learned
- Love this
- Metaphor
- Quote of the Day
- randomness
- rant
- reminiscence
- Repost
- Song of the Day
- Uncategorized
Say What?
Who Loves Me?
About Me